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This isn’t coaching.

It's a Leadership Performance System.

Most leadership development gives you insight and sends you back into the same environment to repeat the same patterns. This is different. The Institute of Curiosity Leadership Performance System combines objective assessment data, expert interpretation, and a proprietary Curious Conversation framework — so what changes in the room also changes under pressure.

What separates this from every other leadership program you've tried — or considered.

Most tools assess you in calm conditions. This captures you when the stakes are real. The WE-I Profile measures how your nervous system actually responds under pressure — not how you think you respond — and everything built on top of that is specific to you.

Assessment-Led

Objective data on your internal stress response — not personality types or style labels.

System Based

Three sequential stages that build on each other. Insight alone changes nothing — the system changes behaviour.

Team-Wide

Individual and collective results. You see what's happening inside your people and inside the room.

Proprietary Curious Conversation Framework

A simple, three-step framework. Taught around the conversations that have always been hardest for you.

HOW IT WORKS

Three Stages. One Complete System.

Every stage builds on the last. Most leadership programs stop at Stage 1. This one doesn’t start until you understand what Stage 1 actually reveals.

STAGE 1: REVEAL - WE-I Profile Assessment

The only EQ assessment designed specifically for high-pressure moments. Unlike personality tools assessed in calm conditions, the WE-I captures your non-conscious patterns — the internal stress responses that shape your leadership before you’re even aware they’re operating.

This is not about who you are. It’s about what happens inside you when everything is on the line.

  • Where your attention goes when stress hits
  • Which emotions you access — and which you shut down
  • How your blind spots are affecting your performance
  • The collective stress patterns quietly shaping your team’s dynamics
WHY THIS MATTERS:
The WE-I Profile is the only assessment of its kind that measures internal stress response — not personality or style. Traditional tools tell you who you are in calm conditions. The WE-I tells you what happens when the pressure is real. That’s the data that actually drives change.

Data without context is noise. In your debrief with Kirsten, your WE-I results are translated into real moments you recognize — specific situations, recurring patterns, conversations that keep going sideways.

For teams, this session creates a shared language for what’s actually happening under pressure — without blame, without shame, and without the defensiveness that usually shuts these conversations down.

  • Individual debriefs that connect data to lived experience
  • Team session that maps collective patterns and friction points
  • A shared language for stress and communication patterns
  • Clear picture of why certain conversations keep stalling
     
WHY THIS MATTERS
Most assessments end with a report. Without expert interpretation, data becomes noise — or worse, it gets misread and dismissed. The debrief is where the data becomes insight — a story you recognize. It’s the step that makes everything that follows actually stick.

This is where insight becomes action. The Curious Conversation Framework is a proprietary, neuroscience-backed methodology — fifteen years in the making, proven across healthcare, government, law, financial services, technology, and education. Simple enough to remember under pressure. Taught around the exact conversations that used to derail you.

  • Stay regulated in conversations that used to trigger a reaction
  • Ask questions that open dialogue, not defensiveness
  • Hold difficult conversations through to a productive outcome
  • Recognize your stress response and redirect it in the moment
THE PROPRIETARY DIFFERENCE
No other practitioner combines the WE-I Profile with the Curious Conversation Framework. The assessment reveals the pattern. The framework changes it. This combination is what makes the system produce lasting behavioural change — not just lasting awareness.

PACKAGES

Start where it makes sense for you.

Whether you’re an individual leader ready to understand yourself under pressure, or an HR or People leader building this across your organization — there’s a clear entry point.

Insight

See exactly how stress is shaping your leadership team — with the data to prove it.
PRICING BASED ON TEAM SIZE
WE-I assessment + individual report — $700 per person
90-min private debrief with Kirsten — included
Raw team data report — $300
Half-day group data session — $2,500
Pricing Confirmed on Discovery Call

EQUIP

Reveal the patterns —
then give your leaders the skills to perform differently.
PRICING BASED ON TEAM SIZE
Everything in Insight
Half-day Curious Conversation workshop — built from your team's WE-I results
Curious Conversation cheat sheets for every participant
Pricing Confirmed on Discovery Call
Most Chosen

TRANSFORM

A complete leadership performance system — built entirely around your team's specific results.
PRICING BASED ON TEAM SIZE
Everything in Insight
Full-day Curious Conversation workshop — deep skill development
Individual leader action plans
Curious Conversation cheat sheets for every participant
Pricing Confirmed on Discovery Call

Precision Stress Audit

See exactly how stress is shaping your leadership — with objective data, not guesswork. Includes your personal WE-I assessment and a private 90-minute debrief with Kirsten.
$ 700
WE-I Profile assessment
Individual Report
90 mins Private Debrief with Kirsten
Personal Stress Response Map
Priority blind spots and development areas identified
Recommended Next Steps
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Skills Development -
The Curiosity Lab

Apply the Curious Conversation Framework to your specific,
real-world leadership challenges. Each session is built around your WE-I results — not a generic curriculum.
$ 1,500
3 x 60-min Curious Conversation development sessions moving you from insight to application
Each session is custom-built around your specific stress triggers and blind spots identified in the WE-I assessment
Apply Curious Conversation protocols to neutralize your "autopilot" response, ensuring you lead with focus and clarity in high-stakes situations
Curated resources matched to your development areas
Curious Conversation cheat sheets — specific to your patterns
Natural next step

Most leaders complete both steps. The WE-I Experience is where to start — Skills Development is available immediately after.

Thinking about your team? Most leaders who start here bring the WE-I to their team within six months — because once you see it in yourself, you can't unsee it in the room.

WHO THIS IS FOR

Built for leaders at every level.

INDIVIDUAL LEADERS

You're capable and you know it. But something keeps happening under pressure — in difficult conversations, in high-stakes moments — and you can't quite see it. This system makes the invisible visible, and gives you a repeatable framework for what to do with that insight.

HR & PEOPLE LEADERS

You've tried programs. You've tried retreats. You're looking for something that actually produces measurable, lasting change in how your leaders communicate and perform under pressure — not just a workshop that gets great feedback and fades within a month.

EXECUTIVES & CEOs

You're building a culture, not just managing performance. You need your senior team to model the kind of communication that creates psychological safety, retains talent, and drives results. This system builds that — at the root level, not the surface level.

COMMON QUESTIONS

What leaders ask before they start.

What makes the Institute of Curiosity Leadership Performance System different from executive coaching?

This system is data-led from the start. The WE-I Profile provides objective measurement of your internal stress response before a single session takes place — so everything that follows is grounded in what’s actually happening, not what you think is happening. You’re not working from someone’s impression of you. You’re working from a precise map.

The WE-I Profile is the only EQ assessment that measures your internal stress response — what happens inside you when the pressure is real and the stakes are high. Tools like DiSC and Myers-Briggs measure personality and communication style in calm, self-reported conditions. The WE-I captures the non-conscious patterns that operate beneath the surface, specifically in high-pressure moments. That’s the data that drives actual behavioural change.

The Curious Conversation Framework is a proprietary, neuroscience-backed methodology — fifteen years in the making, proven across healthcare, government, law, financial services, technology, education, and the non-profit sector. It gives leaders a simple, three-step system for staying regulated, asking better questions, and navigating high-stakes conversations — even under stress. Taught around the exact conversations that have always been hardest for you.

Individual sessions are available virtually. Team workshops are in-person only — the work is too important and too interactive to lose people to a screen.

That depends on the package and team size.

Individual leaders who complete all three stages typically move through the system over four months — with intentional spacing between sessions to process, apply, and return with real experience to build on. Each session deepens the last.

Team engagements are scoped on a discovery call based on team size, goals, and scheduling. The discovery call is the right place to map out a realistic timeline for your specific situation.

Yes! Thirty minutes. The call is a genuine conversation about what’s happening for you or your team and whether this work is the right fit — in either direction. Most people leave with a clear next step, whether that’s working together or not. Kirsten will tell you honestly if this isn’t the right solution for your situation.

The right next step is a conversation.

Thirty minutes. Free. No pitch and no pressure — just a clear-eyed discussion about what’s happening for you or your team and whether this work is the right fit.